Most parents assume their teen is not at risk. Many parents are wrong.
Parents and caregivers tend to underestimate drug and alcohol use among their own children, while overestimating use among other kids. In fact, less than 2% of parents believe their teen has used an illicit substance. But the reality is that 27% of 8th, 10th and 12th graders report having used an illicit drug.
The truth is EVERY teen is vulnerable to substance use – including your own.
Parents have a significant influence on their children’s decision to experiment with alcohol and other drugs. Although it may not seem like it, when parents talk about underage drinking and substance use, their children do hear them. They hear everything, whether you realize it or not.
It’s never too early to start the discussion.
Parents have a significant influence on their children’s decision to experiment with alcohol and other drugs. Although it may not seem like it, when parents talk about underage drinking and substance use, their children do hear them. They hear everything, whether you realize it or not.
What are the signs?
It’s important to know that there is no “type” of person who becomes addicted. People can face addiction no matter where they’re from, what they look like, or how much money they have.
One important sign of addiction is that a person continues to use drugs even though it’s harming their life: physical health, performance at school, work, or relationships. They feel like they can’t stop using drugs, no matter the consequences.
Other signs can include:
- Hanging out with different friends that contribute to undesirable behaviors.
- Not caring about their appearance.
- Getting lower grades in school.
- Missing classes, skipping school, or a general uninterest in previous school activities.
- Losing interest in their favorite hobbies.
- Getting in trouble in school, or with law enforcement.
- Having unusual eating or sleeping habits.
- Having issues with family members and friends that seem unreasonable.
Talking to your teen could save their life.
The Facts. Your Future. initiative provides a toolkit that makes starting the conversation with your teen easier and gives essential information and tips to help guide the discussion. In the toolkit you’ll find:
- Facts on drugs and their use among teens.
- A guide to starting and continuing conversations with your teen about drugs and alcohol.
- Signs and symptoms to look for if you suspect your teen may be using drugs or alcohol.
Recognize the signs.
By recognizing signs that may indicate a problem with drug and alcohol use, parents and caregivers can identify teens who may be at risk and work with teachers, counselors or other trusted resources to help their teen make smart choices. While the following signs do not always mean a teen is using drugs or alcohol, take the time to find out, especially if these changes occur suddenly or are combined with other signs.
Changes in mood
- Lack of interest
- Increased irritability.
- Sadness or depression.
- Defensiveness.
Changes in behavior
- Abrupt changes in friends.
- Sleepiness and/or zoning out.
- Behavior problems.
- Sudden drop in academic performance.
Changes in appearance
- Bloodshot or red eyes.
- Unexplained weight loss or gain.
- Poor hygiene.
- Unexplained injuries.
- Unusual smells on their breath, clothes, or belongings.
Tactic: If you notice changes in your teen that are concerning, ask them about it. Talk to your teen’s advisors or their school counselor.
